Oct 17, 2009

You are dealing this in a wrong way

To someone...

We are living under the same shelter. Sometimes if problem occurs, I really hope the people who felt they are victimised, talk to at least one or two housemates, and we get the problem solved. We are living in the modern era, not like you talk to one of them, and they gonna kill you with parangs.

At the very least, you give chance to other people to explain, in a way. Which to say, you are becoming a part of the society, to produce nicer people. It's still better than you straightly talk to uncle and auntie, which are the owner of the unit, and get the problem solved straightly? But spoil the bonds in the house.

The internet line, at least 5 people are sharing at the same time. Time change, people change, I became one of the longest stayer in the house, and I would say, it's very hard to prevent people from using p2p software. I think I shall restate this again... It is a statement that everyone agreed since the time of Jimmy in the house.

"You are advised to use p2p software only at the appropriate time. If one feels that their working process had been affected by another party using p2p software, he has the right to ask him to stop it, or plug it off, after confirming that user of p2p software is out of the house or sleeping."

Those were the time we asking housemates to stop using p2p software openly and publicly if we are doing serious business, and need the appropriate internet speed.

Time moves on, and I think the new dudes had either forgotten, or not equipped with this rule. I would be happy to explain and do things with more responsibility if the person come and talk to me.

The thing is, again and again, there are people not putting the concern in their head, and they have chosen to talk to uncle, and get a paper with statement stated on top of the router and modem. They think the problem solved.

I talked to uncle about the issue as well. I plugged the LAN cable out, just like how we did it last time. If there is any difficulties in mind of saying things or at least saying "HI" in between us, it wasn't me who created the problem. It was you, choose to deal it that way. You bear part of the responsibility.

Most of the time, I am the last one in the house to go to bed. I can easily know who's using p2p software while they are sleeping. I choose not to know, and not to do anything, if the internet speed is still acceptable for me. But if it is really slow due to that reason. I will plug it out. We are all matured people, we expect some sensitivity on issues from one another. If you trying to be blunt, same thing you will get from me, a little bit blunt, forgotten to plug the LAN cable back when I off to sleep.

If you think uncle will help to solve your problem, let me tell you, what he said to me was:
"Find out who is downloading, we barred him like what we do during Jimmy's time."

I don't think it's good to either you or me.
Is the whole thing fair? I guess yes. Even my roommate Jerry, I do the same to him. Does he know about it? Yes he knows. What you do, you carry appropriate amount of responsibility, with suitable amount of prediction on what's going to happen.

Wanna be a cry baby after that? It's a sad case you still living in a shy-shy time.
I guess, you don't even bother or have chance to see this.

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